Best of
Best apps for staying in touch with friends and family
Less work-y, more personal. Tools we'd give to someone who just wants to remember to call their grandmother.
The picks
Tools we'd recommend for anyone with a life outside work looking at stay-in-touch app.
Contact Book has a calmer surface than most: a contact card has a conversation log, life events with reminders, gift histories, family relationships, and a stay-in-touch cadence per person. Quiet, focused, no notifications outside the ones you set yourself.
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Best for
Anyone who has 30+ people they truly want to keep in regular touch with.
Apple Reminders / Google Calendar
Free + already on your phone.
If your needs are essentially "don't forget birthdays" + occasional follow-up reminders, the calendar app you already pay nothing for is fine. We say this honestly - you don't need a personal CRM if you're not going to use it.
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Best for
People with simple needs and a small circle.
Monica leans into journaling as a feature, which suits people who want to write longer entries about life events, kids' milestones, partners. Self-hostable.
Strengths
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Best for
People who write often and want a journal-shaped surface.
Try Contact Book
Free plan, no credit card. We host in Germany. You can export and delete everything self-serve.
Written by
Julia Yukovich
Co-Founder + CEO
Julia is one of the Co-Founders. She handles design, product direction, and most of the support replies that arrive in the morning.
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